Getting Ready for Your Family Photo Session: Embracing the Chaos

Let me tell you a little secret—I’m not your “sit still and say cheese” kind of photographer. If you’re looking for stiff, perfectly posed family portraits where everyone is forcing a smile… I might not be your girl. But if you want photos that actually feel like your family—messy, playful, real—then we’re going to get along just fine.

Because let’s be honest, family photo sessions can feel a little chaotic. Your toddler refuses shoes, your kid suddenly hates their outfit, and someone always needs a snack (or a nap). But that’s the beauty of it! Those wild, unfiltered moments? That’s the good stuff. The way your little one clings to you, the belly laughs, the sibling squabbles—it’s all part of your story, and I’m here to capture it exactly as it is.

So, let’s talk about how to prep, stress less, and make magic happen on photo day.

Mindset is Everything

I know how it goes—you’re wrestling a toddler into shoes, someone’s already crying, and you’re questioning why you thought this was a good idea. Deep breath, mama. This isn’t chaos; it’s just life with kids. And guess what? I expect it. I love it.

So instead of stressing about getting everyone to “behave,” shift your mindset. Think of your session like a fun family hangout—just with me (and my camera) tagging along. The best photos come when everyone’s relaxed and being themselves. Let go of perfection and just be in the moment—I promise, that’s when the magic happens.

Start with You, Mom (Yes, YOU!)

Before we even think about outfits for the kids, let’s talk about yours. Because here’s the deal—if you don’t feel confident, it’ll show in your photos. So pick something you love. Something comfortable, flattering, and easy to move in (because let’s be real, you’ll be chasing at least one kid).

Try it on ahead of time—twirl in it, sit on the floor, lift your arms. If it feels stiff or fussy, ditch it. Your outfit sets the tone, so let’s make sure you feel amazing.

Outfits—Keep It Simple, Keep It Real

Now, let’s dress the rest of the crew. No need for overly coordinated, matchy-matchy outfits—just pick colors that go well together. Think soft, neutral tones with a few textures and layers. After you choose yours, build from there.

A few quick tips:
✔ Let the kids try on their outfits ahead of time—no surprises on photo day.
✔ Make sure everything fits (no too-big sleeves or shoes they can’t walk in).
✔ If your daughter is wearing a dress, toss on some bloomers or shorts so she can run and play freely.
✔ Keep dad’s look simple—solid colors, relaxed fit, and nothing too distracting.

Not sure if it all works together? Lay everything out and send me a pic—I’ll give you a thumbs up or help tweak it.

Let Your Kids Be Themselves

The best advice I can give? Don’t force smiles. Seriously.

I’m not the photographer who will tell your kid to “say cheese.” Instead, I let them warm up, play, and just be. I’ll chat with your shy one, let your wild child run free, and embrace whatever energy they bring.

Trust me, if we make this fun for them, the real smiles come naturally. And if your kiddo is having a moment? We roll with it. No stress, no forcing it. Just real, beautiful moments as they happen.

Trust the Process & Enjoy the Ride

I know that planning outfits, wrangling kids, and making time for family photos is an investment. But here’s the thing—you’ll never regret it. These aren’t just pictures; they’re memories frozen in time. The way your baby reaches for you, the silly faces, the way they look at you like you’re their whole world.

So on photo day, relax. No last-minute meltdowns over hair or shoes. Just show up, be present, and let me handle the rest. I’m not here for perfect—I’m here for you.

Can’t wait to capture your family’s magic. See you soon!

—Micah